Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Embracing Vulnerability

We can't access empathy when we refuse to allow ourselves to feel vulnerable. 


Watch Brene Brown talk about vulnerability.
Well worth five minutes! 

Monday, March 23, 2015

The hands-on guide to communicate and develop a solid bond with your teen.

I've created a Facebook Page to post informative and interesting articles on parenting. Please click on Parenting Roadmaps and click LIKE to have access to all the current articles. 

I'm promoting, with my co-author Susan Shaffer, our newest book which is being released in may 2015. 


Bullying, gangs, social media, smartphones, reality TV . . .
The hands-on guide you need to communicate and develop a solid bond with your teen.

In the past, parents could block the threats of the outside world by merely closing their front door and turning off the TV. Now, your home is penetrable thanks to social media and cellphones, and drugs are easier to get than ever.

How to Connect with Your iTeen helps you re-open the lines of communication with "silent" teenage boys and cut through the drama of teenage girls. The authors provide education and coping skills for navigating the everything from socially complex issues concerning sexting and bullying to mundane challenges like school and homework.

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

New resouce for parents of teens

It's official. The publications date of our new book on iTeens is May 15. 

How to Connect with Your iTeen: 

 Susan Morris Shaffer and 

Linda Perlman Gordon


Bullying, gangs, social media, smartphones, reality TV . . .

The hands-on guide you need to communicate and develop a solid bond with your teen.

In the past, parents could block the threats of the outside world by merely closing their front door and turning off the TV. Now, your home is penetrable thanks to social media and cellphones, and drugs are easier to get than ever.

How to Connect with Your iTeen helps you re-open the lines of communication with "silent" teenage boys and cut through the drama of teenage girls. The authors provide education and coping skills for navigating the everything from socially complex issues concerning sexting and bullying to mundane challenges like school and homework

Do We Engage in Fear Based Parenting?

According to David Finkelhor at the Crimes Against Children's Research Center, abductions by strangers are down 51% since 1997 yet only 13% of school aged children walk or bike to school compared to 48% in 1969. 

Childhood is now a danger free zone, with kids bubble wrapped to keep them perennially safe. While we think we can shield our kids from imagined danger, we often ignore the fact that via the internet, our homes now bring the outside inside. 

It may be time to realistically assess what threatens our children. Is it the unaccompanied ride or walk to a friends house or the time spent trolling the information highway for mind numbing hours.  

Read about the five myths about missing children, in the Washington Post Article by David Finkelhor.  The ubiquitous mantra, NEVER TALK TO STRANGERS isn't the answer. It is better to teach our children to discern the signs of the inappropriate stranger.