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Bullying, gangs,
social media, smartphones, reality TV . . . The hands-on guide you
need to communicate and develop a solid bond with your teen. In the past, parents
could block the threats of the outside world by merely closing their front door
and turning off the TV. Now, your home is penetrable thanks to social media and
cellphones, and drugs are easier to get than ever.
How to Connect with
Your iTeen helps
you re-open the lines of communication with "silent" teenage boys and
cut through the drama of teenage girls. The authors provide education and coping
skills for navigating the everything from socially complex issues concerning
sexting and bullying to mundane challenges like school and homework.
It's official. The publications date of our new book on iTeens is May 15.
How
to Connect with Your iTeen:
Susan Morris Shaffer and
Linda Perlman Gordon
Bullying, gangs, social media, smartphones, reality TV . . . The hands-on guide you
need to communicate and develop a solid bond with your teen. In the past, parents
could block the threats of the outside world by merely closing their front door
and turning off the TV. Now, your home is penetrable thanks to social media and
cellphones, and drugs are easier to get than ever. How to Connect with Your iTeen helps you re-open the lines of communication with
"silent" teenage boys and cut through the drama of teenage girls. The
authors provide education and coping skills for navigating the everything from
socially complex issues concerning sexting and bullying to mundane challenges
like school and homework
According to David Finkelhor at the Crimes Against Children's Research Center, abductions by strangers are down 51% since 1997 yet only 13% of school aged children walk or bike to school compared to 48% in 1969. Childhood is now a danger free zone, with kids bubble wrapped to keep them perennially safe. While we think we can shield our kids from imagined danger, we often ignore the fact that via the internet, our homes now bring the outside inside. It may be time to realistically assess what threatens our children. Is it the unaccompanied ride or walk to a friends house or the time spent trolling the information highway for mind numbing hours.
Read about the five myths about missing children, in the Washington Post Article by David Finkelhor. The ubiquitous mantra, NEVER TALK TO STRANGERS isn't the answer. It is better to teach our children to discern the signs of the inappropriate stranger.